I believed that in everyone of us, we possessed this universal quality. We think that we are right. If it is reasonablly orchestrated, it would be just fine. We do have to stand for ourselves. To uphold what we believe. To be firm with our decision. To live with principles. Yes, we have to in order to protect our pride and image. However, if we think we are always right most of the times, it would hurt our image in one way or another.
I have been breathing for 23 years, living and mingling around with people of this species. The kind that will never give in. The kind that will fight for what they believe is true. No matter how hard the wind of change blows, their sail would hardly be readjusted. They do have problem with fixation.
Guys, you can't be right all the time. To think that you are, please learn the basic! We are imperfect. Remember that.
You might be pondering on what has driven me to talk about this. Days back, I was with this friend of mine. We talked leisurely almost about everything under the sun. The conversation seemed fine not until this sickening attitude of this fellow submerged. So unfortunate that this person's pair of eyes could only see from only too-narrow angle. Believing in something that may soothe the troubled soul that yearned for a moment of peace. Choosing to ignore the fact that to move on, we human have to openly accept people's criticism.
People may appear to be so good in layng our their argument. They may also appear seemingly confident about their judgment. Do they seriously do? If they do, why are they continuously being sidelined? Why do their entire personality change? Yet, they still put the blame on others for whatever they are now facing? Tragically, when others' offer their oipinion, it is seen as an insult. What is worst, they may even think that people are not sympathetic and emphatic enough just because they do not think alike..
When a pair of helping hand is treated as a kind of horrid, shameful jest, how else can others bring you back to life? You denied each. In fact, you are now pretending that you are enjoying your new life; the life that is so not yours. The joy that you indulged in is very temporary. You do all those to divert your attention which simply means, you refused to do anything to improve on your life. You listen only to your blue heart.
You will never change not until you learn to accept others' advice. You will be trapped in the agony that you self-create for a longer time. I can only shake my head from a distance seeing you destructing your own life.
It is time for you to re-construct your life. Hire a worthy engineer and a soulful architect to rebuild your disastrous life. You need a mega plan. You do need. one And for the re-construction to commence, open up your heart and shhhhh... listen... Just learn to listen...
I have been breathing for 23 years, living and mingling around with people of this species. The kind that will never give in. The kind that will fight for what they believe is true. No matter how hard the wind of change blows, their sail would hardly be readjusted. They do have problem with fixation.
Guys, you can't be right all the time. To think that you are, please learn the basic! We are imperfect. Remember that.
You might be pondering on what has driven me to talk about this. Days back, I was with this friend of mine. We talked leisurely almost about everything under the sun. The conversation seemed fine not until this sickening attitude of this fellow submerged. So unfortunate that this person's pair of eyes could only see from only too-narrow angle. Believing in something that may soothe the troubled soul that yearned for a moment of peace. Choosing to ignore the fact that to move on, we human have to openly accept people's criticism.
People may appear to be so good in layng our their argument. They may also appear seemingly confident about their judgment. Do they seriously do? If they do, why are they continuously being sidelined? Why do their entire personality change? Yet, they still put the blame on others for whatever they are now facing? Tragically, when others' offer their oipinion, it is seen as an insult. What is worst, they may even think that people are not sympathetic and emphatic enough just because they do not think alike..
When a pair of helping hand is treated as a kind of horrid, shameful jest, how else can others bring you back to life? You denied each. In fact, you are now pretending that you are enjoying your new life; the life that is so not yours. The joy that you indulged in is very temporary. You do all those to divert your attention which simply means, you refused to do anything to improve on your life. You listen only to your blue heart.
You will never change not until you learn to accept others' advice. You will be trapped in the agony that you self-create for a longer time. I can only shake my head from a distance seeing you destructing your own life.
It is time for you to re-construct your life. Hire a worthy engineer and a soulful architect to rebuild your disastrous life. You need a mega plan. You do need. one And for the re-construction to commence, open up your heart and shhhhh... listen... Just learn to listen...
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