Friday, March 5, 2010

FrIendShiP

We are at lost the moment we think a person should be somebody that we wanted him or her to be. We would start losing friends instantly when we insisted on them to see only what we see. Most of the times, we thought that our friends are drifting away when in fact we are actually creating a distance. We are losing our drives when we start to put the blame on others and never once reconsider that we are actually at fault. When we started to count on every little, tiny thing, that is when others started to be calculative with you too. When we think that others are always wrong, maybe we have never been right ourselves. To sustain a friendship, we have to practice the basic; give sufficiently and take moderately. Take care of the heart of others greatly because yours would be wonderfully taken care of too. Above all, to be a friend, accept others as who they truly are. Look not only at their weaknesses because you have countless of imperfection that lies within you. The good news is, when we work on those flaws with the one we call friend, the end product would be unbelievably invigorating. Remember, when it is ALWAYS about you WINNING, you are actually AT THE LOSING END...

3 comments:

Nana said...

Very well said~ gago jak anonymous tok...

QieYaH said...

ahaha.. bait wordpress.. ari ya mlah business indah na..lucu..
btw, apa yg dpdh mmg bena. sikda sorang pun maok kalah. smua maok menang. tp, bila sesorang mula memikirkan kesan utk menang jak2, like losing fren, sesorang itu akan mengalah utk kebaikan bersama. mnyerah kalah bukan bermakna kt lemah.
chill out k sulu ku..

Walt said...

Hahahaha.. dah delete dah advertisement yg menyemak ya.. Makseh kitak duak...