Friday, February 27, 2009

The other in us

This entry is dedicated to one my dearest friend. Owh, my.. What a transformation that you have gone through. You have changed a lot. Sometimes, I just do not know whether it was you whom I am talking to or was it someone else?
We may not realized how much has our significant other influenced our personalities. Those who are frail would be easily manipulated by the other who is of a stronger trait. In certain cases, this may be good as it would help to heighten one's sense of security or maybe respect.
On the other hand, the person might lost his very own persona. Possibly because that person assumes that it is better to act like the others since it appeared okay and acceptable before his eye. Little that he knows that his reputation has somehow been tarnished by his newly-possessed or newly-adopted characteristics which bring him more harm than good.
Celebrate your sense of self-worth. Just be yourself. Beauty is skin deep. Do not be deceived by other misleading disgraceful personalities which superficially materialize as a fine disposition. In the end of the day, you would be at the losing end. Please.. Just remain the same. I like you better the way YOU TRULY ARE!! I want you back...

1 comment:

Robin Wong said...

In actual fact, we should not blame on the influenced ones because they need to sort of adapt to the stronger traits to secure himself or herself a place in the friendship. Otherwise, he or she might be isolated and set aside from the relationship.