Cliche title, huh?? Does it still carry any weight? What if a so-called friend indeed is not there when we are in need or vice-versa? Would it be a friendship still? I have one simple answer. When our heart is burning with anger and flaming with frustration, our heart would be blinded that it could hardly see and feel the beauty of friendship. And slowly, when we manage to leave those downbeat emotions, then we would realize that we still want our friend to be around. I believe that it is normal to feel bad about your companions. And to get hurt is also normal. No one friendship is flawless. We may argue, we may disagree over matters. We may quarrel and turn others a long face. And it is perfectly normal for you and I are just living a life like any other homosapiens s.p. Well, we can't appreciate things if we do not appreciate them as we can't enjoy our happiness if we never get to experience soreness. Hmmm.. Hard fact, right? But, that is how the universe work, at large. Day and night, shine and rain, war and peace.. Each needs time to be cured. But, do not let the time factor alone to decide what is next for us. We must keep going or else, we would be easily defeated and once we are doubly defeated, it would be hard to stand tall again. In such a trial, do not give in simply. Keep your white flag for a better reason. Perhaps, you could raise it highly when you are extremely mad? You may cry or scream your lung out. But you must not surrender and concede defeat. Do whatever it takes, however long it needs. And you are, a friend INDEED!!! A worthy one.. If the others refuse to reciprocate, pray for them and keep waiting. They would soon realize...
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