Thursday, February 26, 2009

I am a bad guy!!!

One more question for you and I to ponder... You find your friend disgusted you a lot, a real lot at times. As luck would have it, you enjoy your friend companion sooooooooooooo much!!!!! And paradoxically, you go with the flow too.. You do leave some negative comments about his or her unpleasant personalities. Sometimes, you can't help but to share what you feel with others; not to tarnish your friend's image but you just in need to let go. So, help me guys to justify.. Am I a bad friend? Am I not a worthy friend?
I personally believe that friendship is one of the most treasured gift ever. Knowing that your friend is around when you are greatly tested, it would certainly leave you with I-feel-good feeling, which make your life more bearable. The surely-not-surprising irony is, friendship is the hardest to keep.

5 comments:

Robin Wong said...

There are always two sides of a coin. When you feel good, you will find your friends are perfect and they are your best companions. However, when you are emotionally driven, i mean negatively, you will find every aspect of your friends' is negative, even those positive aspects that you find positive when you feel good. So, just don't take your negative emotions too hard that they influence your attitude towards your friends.

Walt said...

It is not about you in a not-so-good emotion. Mmmm.. I am actually concern with even when you are wide awake, in your conscience, you are aware of ur friend misconduct.. How would you deal with it when you do not want to actually cause any fuss??

Robin Wong said...

i c...then i think we need to take a more positive alternative, which is the person concerned is influenced by negative mood...then, we should make a fuss of it since that person is in a irrational and aggressive state. therefore, there is no use to argue over that certain matter. i know this sounds like a escapist but that is the matter of fact...you know, human beings are complex psychologically. we never know what is in one's mind...

Robin Wong said...

correction: we should NOT make a fuss of it since that person is in a irrational and aggressive state

Anonymous said...

yes. friendship is the hardest one to keep. couldn't agree more.